Happy Saturday!
I want to touch today on the subject of trust. Within the past couple of weeks, I've learned some hard lessons about not trusting my instincts. Right now, even, I am kicking myself for being "Ms. nice girl". It's my nature to want to please everyone and we all know that does not work.
We all have a deep small inner voice that speaks to us when something feels good. It also lets us know loud and clear when something does not feel quite right. I am known as a person who gives everyone the benefit of the doubt and I do not judge others. However, I am also known to be a little too trusting. I hand out trust like it's water. My reason for writing today is two-fold; one is that it is very self-healing and two, I want to help others follow and trust their instincts. If your first thought about a situation does not feel good-then STOP and go with that "gut" feeling. The consequences could be dire if you don't follow and TRUST your instincts.
I wear my heart on my sleeve and I will continue to do so. However, I have learned a valuable lesson about handing out trust to everyone I meet. I generally like to believe that people are good-natured. Unfortunately, the past couple of weeks, I have attracted two situations that are shall we say less than ideal. I won't bore you with the details, but I will say this, I will NEVER ignore my inner voice again.
So, I want to leave you with this-keep an open mind and an open heart. I believe that the Universe is kind and is always on our side. The lesson I have learned is to be more discerning about who I let into my world. A person will now have to earn my trust. This is not to say that my heart is closed. I'm just deciding to be more choosy about what I will and will not tolerate.
If this resonates with you, then, I would love to hear any comments you may have.
Have a blessed weekend!
With gratitude,
Stephanie
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